I chuckle at the way we define ourselves in this world. We often
feel obligated to answer key questions about our career, our marital status or
our investments as if proving ourselves to someone. I enjoy listening to
conversations in malls, on trains, in offices…there’s that old joke about “be
careful or you will end up in my novel.” But I listen to people as they get to
know each other. There are “significant things” people want to know depending
upon the person. Where are you from? What denomination are you? Where did you
graduate from? How long have you worked there? Who’s your broker? Have you volunteered
there long?
But I like to look deeper. The “insignificant” things make
us unique and really define who we are. Take my girls, for instance. I can
answer the “significant” things about each one of the. Yes, my daughters make good
grades, play musical instruments, have a strong faith and are really good kids
overall. I feel confident that they will be prepared for the future, whatever
that holds. I know that education and strong roots are important. But I love
the little things about them that you see only when you really get to know
them, the things that others may see as insignificant.
One daughter refuses to let people make negative comments
about others. She reminds those near her not to gossip, but to always find the
positive in a person. One daughter sees the small things in life. She can find
a ladybug or a tiny flower that I overlooked. She sees the rays of the sun
before I do. Both daughters enjoy a good conversation. My daughters love
mismatched socks. They draw hearts on their hands. They like cheese melted on
saltine crackers. They fall asleep to music--one to contemporary Christian and
one to country music. Both like history. One eats peanut butter on a spoon. One
cuts her own hair. One can’t whistle.
Writer’s challenge: Create a character for a short story
based only on “insignificant” aspects of life. Don’t identify a career or a
school major or financial status. Try to write at from 500 to 1000 words about this
character using only small details of life.